Just a survey, I'd like to hear your personal opinions/experience. Emotional means because this other girl you're cheating with accepts you or you can connect with her emotionally. Sexual means.. like for sexual pleasures only - like a dog, just to get rid of your libido.
Sex! wife is just not in to it anymore, i just got back late last night from a 4 day trip with the mistress we had a wonderful time, you see if the wife would come across she could have went on the little get away her lose not mine i asked her first.
I am not a man, but I would guess for 90% of them it's sexual pleasure only.
Sexual
I am not a man but think it can be both, if a man is married and his wife beats up on hm all the time and he finds a friend who listens and does not judge I think feelings could develop, and of course there is the sexual reasons.
mostly sexual. If emotional too they would put an end to their relationship with the cheated party.
Yes.
Look, most men and women, its the same two needs, they just highlight them differently. Women who cheat tend to feel an emotional connection with the person they cheat with, filling a void, and this emotional connection makes them feel sexual.
Men feel emotionally rejected when sexually rejected, and emotionally loved when sexually fulfilled. So men will _say_ everything is great apart from the lack of sex, but that tends to mean 'they love their wife and worship her but actually feel that they must be unloveable because she won't do anything for them'. They say they cheat for sex, but when they have sex, they feel emotionally cared for.
Sexual acceptance IS emotional acceptance for men.
I think sexual because if it was emotional they wouldn't want to hurt their partners they would end it first!
I think sometimes people just don't think about waht they do and how it will effect everyone else
I would think they cheat for sexual pleasures...than that can lead to emotional..that's my opinion, i'm a woman
Guy here. common reason.....simply for sex...very, very rare to never will it ever be emotional at all. Yes, like a dog basically.
guys don't pull the emotional, she won my heart thing as to why cheating has taken place.
and usually if he loses his relationship over cheating, he'll stay with the girl he cheated for sex and hope things work out...she'll think he wants her, she'll eventually see him for what he is and that relationship ends alsoreasons why men cheat.
this is why I don't cheat. not worth it.
I believe men cheat for sexual pleasure. That's what makes them get close to a woman.
Speaking from my own experience: I cheated because my sex drive is at an all time high, and I was out of control.Every woman that I was attracted to I wanted. I was in the drug game for a little while, and it opened doors to opportunities beyond my belief. Sex became so available to the point that I didn't care if I got caught or not. But I am back to reality now. It was truly an adventure
She walked like a supermodel and she was sexy. Did she please me mentally? All I remember is that she was sexy.
I'd say its a pretty high ratio, that we cheat for emotional reasons. Like 9 out of 10 times, its emotional. In that we either feel like we are not being appreciated, can't do anything right, or simply not good enough for our spouses. So we end up cheating to fill that emotional void and feel good about ourselves.
man cheats bcoz of several reasons....there is no one particular reasons why these happen...no common reason...it all depends on what situation the man can be into...same with woman cheating on their husbands,,,it can be a lot of different reasons.....it can just be bcos of sex needs....can be emotional...can be just physical attraction...can just be a weak self control...there is always a weak side of a person...there is always somebody out there ...younger...sexier....more beautiful...its a very competitive world out there....its really unfair man is always blamed for infedility....woman have a lot to do with why man cheats
Easy answer! standing prick has no conscience! (sexual)
Sexual, if we aren't getting enough at home, we will start to think about cheating. Whether a guy actually goes through with it or not is another story.
I've thought about it, but never actually did it, and don't plan on it.
R U serious? Do U really what to know? Do U really what to know? Because..... its "extremely HOT", "Forbidden", "The Ultimate sin", "Hot Sweet Adultery". Its like getting an deep rush inside your blood veins. Your heart beats 10 x's faster than normal. The anticipation of wanting to do it, is crazy. Its like a deep trance or hypnotize of some kind. U become this totally different, animal. You are no longer human to the world. Its both. Its super hot.
i think for females its more emotional then sexual but for malesreasons why men cheat its 100 percent sex.
As with any person there is a mix of reasons why we do things. Men most often cheat for validation (emotional). Now that validation is most often expressed in men as a sexual need. Men want to feel masculine and sex does that for us. When the woman constantly emasculates her man and begins to have less sex with him, he will normally attempt to try to rescue the relationship by trying to have more sex with his girl. Eventually after enough rejections (physical), he feels less of a man (emotional), then he looks for validation (emotional) in the form of sexual gratification (physical). So while the method is sexual the motive is often a very strong hidden emotion in men.
50/50
they fail to realize what a good woman they have and end up doing stupid things...
I can't speak from first-hand experience, as I am loyal for life, but in a lot of cases it's not purely sexual as most believe. It's just a lack of overall satisfaction in the current marriage. Sometimes, it's as simple as boredom. Same stuff at the same times with the same wifey for the same reasons in the same house. Other times, it can be that the man doesn't feel appreciated by his wife, so he'd rather spend time with someone who can make him feel more appreciated (in whatever way).
In any case, it's all-out wrong and should not be excused or forgotten under any circumstances.
I think Both.
Sexual is obvious.
Emotional... its a little complicated. But heres an example. Weirdest thing happened 3 weeks ago. My wife is sexier than all get out. Very hot indeed. Equally mentally and emotionally beautiful too. Now, I got home from work she says " Hey hot stud, where ya been?"
Ok, this is really weird because this woman who works at my gym said the EXACT same thing verbatim, too me, several hours prior??? Now heres the deal. Wife and I have been together 12 years. Why did it sound better comming from the mouth of this fitness trainer than my wife? I appreciated it more. And yes, as a result, I began an affair with this super fine fitness trainer.
Oh, one other thing. Wife had an affair 5 years ago. Perhaps that helped justify ...doesnt make it right, I know, but getting cheated on changes u as a person.
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